My Mom reminded me to keep blogging. She said you wont remember those magical moments that happen every day. So here I am, back again trying to inspire you to be patient, to wait whatever you have to wait, to endure whatever you have to endure. Just think that your child is also waiting. Remember that it has already been determined that he will be yours, but you have to keep on trying, preparing and waiting. Remember that this child has been probably waiting for a longer time for a family, that has endured some hard situations and probably has had to deal with loss at a very young age. Doesn’t that make your wait, sadness and anxiety almost nothing? I know that it is really easy to say it, then to live it and to be in that moment. Just believe me, it is all worth it! and if you are still waiting for your child your wait will soon be over.
My husband and I went to a lot of the adoption training classes provided by our county and I still was so naive and clueless about attachment/bonding. I made a lot of mistakes, but worked hard at bonding with my child. I have to say that as a family we worked on it a LOT, our little one too. We are at a stable place now but this relationships is something we will work on forever. Sometimes he calls me Mama and that makes my day. I love him and want to give him a stable family, lots of love, and fun. We are all so happy for our immediate summer break! Gotta love it.