After almost three weeks living together, I have to say it has been a rollercoaster ride. Today I feel wonderful, content, at peace, and definetly where I should be.
This is my top 5 greates things that we have accomplished:
1. Spidey stopped sitting at the teacher’s desk, he is now sitting with other kids during the class.
2. Spidey got the bath, brush your teeth, go to bed, read, and go to sleep routine down.
3. Spidey has gotten green cards from school almost everyday.
4. Spidey colored at school using colors, before he will only use blak.
5. Spidey is having less trouble finishing his homework.
I have to admire my husbands patience and thnk him for being my rock.
About one month or so ago I was watching a show on TV “Who do you think you are?” (actually I taped the entire season because the show aired on Fridays which is Movie night) about celebrities finding their ancestors, after watching the Rashida Jones and Paula Deen episode I got the bug. Yes, I did a search using ancestry.com….oh my! the first results where surprising so I got an account. I have worked on my Dad’s side of the family. I have been able to go back to 1800 for sure, and I might have a link all the way back too 1700 but I have not confirmed that the link is correct.
As I started doing this research I found information of my grandpa crossing the border in the 1920′s and the best thing was that they had pictures. So I was able to see pictures of my grandpa when he was in 17, 19, 20, and older. Then I looked into my grandma and found a picture of her when she was 17 (she looked so gorgeous) and also a couple of her when she was 9, she looked so cute as a little girl. Through reviewing marriage licences, birth certificates and baptism documents I was able to go back to at least 4 generations. Through this process I learned that my grandmother lived in the US in the 1920′s and worked as a seamstress, and that she went to high school in the US. Now things are coming into place, this is why my Grandma was such a great dressmaker and why she was bilingual, she spoke perfect english but I just never wondered why or how?
Now my Dad’s birthday is coming up and with Ancestry.com you can also create your own family album, of course for $$, so I am planning to do as much research as I can to have it done for his birthday. I also have to mention that I have used “FamilySearch.org” a free website that has tons of information, it takes some time to find it but is great. I love that someone created this site.
While doing all of these searches and creating this gift for my Dad I could not help but think that this is exactly what I should when a child is places with us for adoption. At least I will try to capture as much information as possible to be able to perform a search in the future or document an album that could be shared with the child when the time is right. I think this is even a good idea for all parents to leave a bit of history about their family ancestors to their children. The best part are the tools that are available today, they are at your fingertips.
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We just got approved as potential adoptive parents this past December. Now, close to the end of July this is getting too hard. I enjoyed spending time with my husband, my parents, my sisters and I am ready to receive the news that a little one might be our potential match.
Sometimes I wonder, what did we put in that questionnaire to not be a match to anyone? It must be that the waiting process is hard. I have to understand that the child that will be the right match for us and that we can help will come at the right time.
This summer we participated in an event organized by our county to meet children that are awaiting adoption. At the event there were more than 200 adoptive families and only 25 adoptive children groups. The issue for us is that we are looking for one child and not a group of children. The event for the most part was very well-organized and fun. The drive back home turned out to be sad, not seeing our selves as capable of taking care of more than one child limited our options. A long drive around town (in the passenger seat) helped to clear my mind. I guess this is all just part of the process and we have to keep a positive attitude and hang in there.
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This morning I took my time to get out of bed, took a long shower and got dress to go to the Spa, oh what a life. I get to the spa on time, relaxed, changed into a warm bathrobe and slipper and walk down the hall to the relaxation room. I sit in a comfy sofa, started sipping chamomile tea and soaking my feet in a Eucalyptus infuse warm water. As I am taking my first sip I say to my self, look at this lady see how lucky your are, see how fortunate you are, give thanks that you can enjoy a day like today and have no worries. Tea smelled delicious and the warm water in my feet felt so relaxing. I close my eyes to give thanks and hear Tari saying hello to me.
Tari is a happy-go-lucky lady that always talks to me with so much love, you know the way a mom talks to you, you can tell she opens up her heart. There she is standing next to me with a big smile, her shiny curly black hair and warm dark eyes. She asks me how am I doing she remembers our conversation from more than a month ago with details. We then start talking about how she is doing and life is not looking that great for her.
Tari’s husband has cancer and had an emergency surgery last week, he is back home and starting radiation again. My dear friend is in need of prayers, today she inspired me to write this blog and ask for your prayers. She is learning how to continue working while taking care of her husband at the same time she sees him getting weaker. Today she is thinking of cutting her hair, she doesn’t want to spend 30 minutes on her hair every morning she wants to spend that time with him. She is trying to simplify her life to spend the time she has with her husband and the ones she loves.
So today I ask you to pray for a stranger, for his and his family well-being. Send all your love as your read this blog. Today, again God was there reminding me of how fortunate I am and how we all can connect through prayer.
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We just received the news, that we are approved as potential adoptive parents. We go into the pool (with all the other waiting parents). I’m so ready to swim.
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